While teaching tonight I witnessed the power of saying "no". I've noticed it before but have never tried to articulate the thoughts. As a dancer I always think in very abstract, fractured thoughts, weaving together bits and pieces that seem to go together to affect an atmosphere or emotion. Back to the point, saying "no" to a dancer with genuine love and care for their growth can be the quickest way to encourage them. I saw them stop, listen, humble themselves, try again havi